Show & tell your kids about debt
Monday, August 21st, 2006This was an interesting article that I read and I thought that I would pass it on. The article was written by Linda Stern and published in Reuters.
By Linda Stern Sat Aug 19, 9:31 AM ET
WASHINGTON (Reuters) - It’s not your fault. Mind games you learned as a child might be to blame for that rising MasterCard balance.
“We make decisions about money and debt and spending from what we saw as children,” says Stephanie Jaeger, a consultant whose “Mind Over Money” business counsels everyone from currency traders to cash-crunched young adults. “Most people have experiences … (as children) that they spend the rest of their lives recreating.”
Jaeger’s theory is that people overspend and get into trouble with debt because they are using their adults powers to soothe their childhood hurts. Someone who heard “no!” all the time as a child might like to go shopping and say “yes!” to himself, for example.
People are taught, in very subtle ways, that money is laden with messages that they need to address. One person might think money is dirty or tainted, and need to get rid of it as soon as possible… by spending, of course. Another might think they have to spend profligately to feel good about themselves.
There are myriad other emotional reasons …continue reading the article titled Show & tell your kids about debt

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